Chances to Grow

I have thought about this a lot today and wondered if I should even post anything about it. Finally my heart got the best of me and I had to share and ask for your guidance.

This morning, I had an opportunity to support my sister in an unemployment hearing. As I listened to her on the phone, I could feel the fear build up inside of me. I asked myself what it was all about and became aware that (Paul ) my victim archetype was getting wrapped up in the outcome and that I was feeling responsible for the outcome. I know I did my part in supporting her through a difficult situation, but my victim still felt responsible.

My question to all of you wonderful friends is this? Now that I am aware that I am doing this, how do I just let it go without feeling guilty for the outcome?

Have compassion. Surrender - let go of all outcomes. Be present with love and compassion. Compassion is the act of opening your heart - setting down emotional barriers and connecting with others. It will connect you to your essence and to the essence of others. Go with compassion.Surrender to what is. Surrender to the lessons that arise. Let life happen as it is going to perfectly divine.

Love,
Jan

Exactly what Jan said! Love and Compassion. Remember that you vibrate at a higher level in compassion then you do in guilt. So you will do her more good at the higher level. This is also a time for you to practice discernment on what is yours and what is not. You are only responsible for you honey!

Hi Robyn,

I agree with Jen and Jan. Nice job ladies. In addition. It is ok to feel the feelings. That is how you recognize the light and shadow aspects of yourself. In fact it is vital that we simply acknowledge what is happening right here right now, without judgment. Simply witness yourself, your thoughts and feelings. Then you can interview yourself to find (discernment) what is yours and what is not. You get to practice discernment, compassion for yourself and others, surrender what is not yours including the outcome and make a conscious choice to do what will serve the highest good of all.

Thank you so much for sharing. It opens up a window for us all.
Love and Light
Vicki

Oh you guys Thanks!!! I so needed to hear this. Thanks Robbyn in sharing this! Yes, to have the wisdom to know what is mine and what is theirs is a great awareness. I am still learning this one (so much better at it!) I am also seeing that I get to be more aware of my compassion with myself and others and the big one for me is Releasing The Outcome!! PS...Still learning this system! Love you all...Vee

I am so in agreement here! I am getting so many opportunities to practice
compassion. Reminding myself of what is mine and what is not comes pretty easy, however the practice will always be necessary!

Ummmm.....ditto....exactly what I needed to hear from Robynn as well as the repies. Thank you. Love you all!!!
Jules

Hi Beautiful Spirits...
Vicki gave the Mastery group an assignment to do a question wheel.
So I invite you to take a look at mine and give me any feedback or insights you see! This will be great practice and I get all your wisdom!
I have posted my wheel on the Mastery page.
Remember, that the 'action' & 'gift' archetypes are only read in light.

It looks like this:
1st house. Athlete * Alchemist * Artist
The Athlete is my Birth Archetype/or my Contract
The Alchemist is my Action according to the Question. (Read in Light only)
The Artist is my Gift from God (Light)if I follow through with my Action.

So, go to the Mastery page to find the rest of my wheel. Ask my any questions you'd like as well. Maya