Second House - Life Values

Hey yo what’s good my peeps,

In my 2nd House of Life values I have the Victim. Once again there is another word that has a negative connotation. So my biggest lesson so far is, understanding that there is no good and bad, it’s all light and shadow, that 4 me was huge! The shadow aspects are self evident:
• Playing “The Victim” for pity, sympathy or attention
• Victimizing others for personal gain
In the light side of this archetype it says:
• Understanding impending dangers of being victimized
• Recognition of situations
• Accountability
The 2nd house of Life Values teaches us that it represents what me hold most dearly 2 our hearts. In energy terms it represents the next stage of formation of self. To me this means that I hold accountability as 1 of my highest virtues. I am often the guy who says “If I say imma do it, then imma do it!” over the weekend I had a lesson on the shadow side of this and I now understand that not every1 is the same way & u can’t expect every1 2 b the same way. U have to accept people 4 who they r!
My intent is to be accountable and accept when my angels r trying 2 guide me and follow my intuition!
I can c that I have a contract with the 1st & 2nd house. On the shadow side I can play the victim and beg 4 sympathy 2 attempt 2 get the attention I want. On the light side if I stay accountable and generous with my compassion, I will get all the positive feedback and attention I deserve. I think I learned a lot with this 1 and I’m starting 2 understand the contracts between the different houses.
Good night all,
Namaste,
Love and light, &
Kind Keala

Awesome introspection Kind Keala!

Wow, I was having a really hard time with my 2nd and 8th houses. It's really hurting in my belly.

In my 2nd house I have the Prostitute, like Denise. And when I read hers I got very emotional, because I also came here with a huge honor code that is so important for me to understand and live by. In my 8th house I have Heroine, and in order for me to stay on the light side and reach my highest potential of my heroine, which is awakening an inner knowing or spiritual power (self empowerment), I need to know exactly what my honor code is and stand by it. To not sell myself short because of what other's think. To do what I KNOW in my heart is right for me and release the attachment to other peoples opinions. (I am INDEPENDANT of the good and bad opinions of others.) This is really huge for me, because all of my life I have allowed what other people think to influence me and sometimes even rule my my life. I have to pay close attention to this one... Whew! I feel a little shaky.

Anyway, you all did an amazing job on your houses. Love you all! Namaste

Oh I need to add, that since my heroine is in the house of other ppls resources, I think I have a tendency to disempower others. But I am aware of it now! So I will work on staying in the light.

Good job Butterfly, just reading that made my belly hurt too, because I know just how that feels. I am independant of the good and bad opinions of others too!
Love you my sweet spirit!

In my second house i am the Saboteur. I am peace, I live in my heart, I am Divine. I have a very high value system of respect and love, also on the shadow side i can search and destroy for my own good which is good and bad at times. I am a very honest person and i dont take shit from no one. I do my very best to love all around me and usually love does rule all. No dark can enter light I hope you know how divine and perfect we are all...Oceans and Oceans of love

I can really see this about you. I love it!

Wow, Ang! Good job! I love how well you figured this all out. I love you so much!

AAWWWOOH!! I love you so much too, Julie!!!

And mom, I love you soo much too!! Thank you for being my mother.

Once I sat down and really looked at it, I just started realizing stuff. And I'm still realizing stuff (& things)! It's pretty sweet